Transcript for Alternative guide to freshers video
Aram: Hi, I’m Aram, and I’m studying chemical engineering.
Liv: And I’m Liv. And I’m studying history and politics, and both of us are members of the Library Student Team.
Aram: So what we’re talking about today is our alternative freshers guide. So we’re discussing the aspects of our uni experience that isn’t talked about as much because we’re students that didn’t fit the conventional mould.
Liv: So firstly, we are both living at home students who never moved out when we started uni. You might hear a lot about moving into halls when you start uni, but we just want to reassure you that this isn’t for everyone, and we still had a really great time staying at home.
Aram: Yeah, we definitely did. In terms of travel, you will have to get used to it, for some students commuting is really really long, but at the university we do offer cosy campus spaces, which is just a place for students to chill out that travel to uni. And there are also lots of societies to get involved in, which are a great way to make friends without having to have moved out.
Liv: I think that idea of meeting people, and missing out on that was something that we definitely struggled with when we were starting, thinking you kind of miss out by not being in the halls.
But we would also like to reassure you that, you know, you can meet so many great people on campus even if you don’t live in halls, you might meet people in your course, or through part-time work. That’s how we met each other, and we never would have come across each other and that’s how we’ve become good friends. Also another one is societies as well.
Aram: Exactly, especially because our courses are so different, so if it wasn’t for this job, we wouldn’t have met.
Liv: Exactly.
Aram: Me and Liv both happen to not drink for different reasons. So for me personally, it’s a religious choice.
Liv: And I just don’t drink out of personal preference.
Aram: Yeah. So basically what we’re saying is, regardless of what your reasoning is, number one, you don’t have to have a reason, but regardless of that reason, it’s OK not to drink.
But when you come to university, you can feel that pressure, especially during welcome week and freshers events that are centred on night outs, clubbing, and drinking. But you don’t have to take part in that if you don’t want to.
Liv: I think even if you can be around alcohol, or you do drink, that might not be the only way that you want to socialise. And it can also feel a bit overwhelming when it feels like it’s the only way to meet people, but that’s definitely not the case, and there are so many other options available in welcome week to get out there and get involved.
Aram: Yeah, definitely and to bring it back to Manchester itself, the uni offers so much. Like we mentioned, societies, volunteering even, like, well-being events. But Manchester is a city has absolutely loads to do. I myself enjoy escape rooms, going to the cinema, finding like really cute cafes in town, there’s so much to do. You just need the right people to explore it with. But sometimes you can just go alone or with your friends from home.
Liv: Another stereotypical idea about uni students is that you have a few hours of lectures but then do nothing for the rest of the week and have loads of free time. While some courses do have a lot of independent study, and that was definitely my experience doing history where you have a lot of time to work independently and read and work on assignments. But that doesn’t mean that everyone has the same workload or the same demands on their time. A lot of people could be studying at uni whilst having family commitments, also while working part-time. And this is definitely something that we’ve both juggled as we’ve been doing our studies and we wanted to reassure you that if you’re thinking of taking a part time job in September you will not be the only one.
People have a variety of jobs while they’re at uni. That’s completely normal and you don’t have to feel like you’ll be missing out and by doing this: it can actually mean that you meet so many new people, have some new experiences that enhance your time at uni. You will not be alone in having a job.
Aram: Definitely. Yeah. I feel like my part time job was almost like a relief from uni work, it definitely gave me a lot of peace and space to work on something else. Otherwise, I would have been sitting on my laptop, working on my degree for hours. To consider something a bit more specific, I do want to touch on placements because that’s something a lot of students do and you might experience that as well. Even having a bit more demanding hours, so if you’re required to go into labs, that’s definitely taken away from the conventional traditional university experience.
From the placement side of things, it can be really overwhelming. You know, it’s a nine-to-five, being away from friends for a year and being away from campus in a new city does take its toll. But there’s so much positive that comes from a placement, so you get to actually work in a job that reflects your potential career choices. So as a Chemical Engineering student, you can do year-long industry placements at engineering firms, plants, and it is a rewarding experience. So it’s definitely something that is life changing and you don’t feel like you’ll be missing out.
Aram: Another aspect of starting university is the potential for family or relationship dynamics to change. It can definitely relate to you moving away and not getting to see your family as much, especially if they live in a different country. But for us living at home, you can also find that change and that your relationships may be different, especially as you’re building up your independence. Not everyone’s family has a history of going to university, so you might actually be the first person to experience this and no one else can really help you. Not everyone is from a privileged, wealthy background, and that’s really reflected in our student body here at Manchester.
Liv: Yeah. And that doesn’t mean that when you come from a family where there isn’t a history of going to uni, that your family aren’t supportive. In my case it probably means they are even more so, because they didn’t have this experience themselves. They were so proud that I went to uni and even more interested in what I’m doing. And yeah, these kind of new experiences can be evident when you think about your existing friendship groups as well. Especially if your friends are taking different paths to you. And that can also feel overwhelming and maybe you feel like you can’t relate to them and they can’t relate to you. But, you know, I think we both agree that this isn’t a negative. You don’t have to lose those existing friendships and relationships, especially if you live at home and you’re in the exact same environment. There is the opportunity to make so many new friends but it’s also really good to carry on some of those existing relationships and kind of enhancing what you already have.
Aram: So these are just a few things that make our uni experience unique. Everyone’s experience is different and some of these things might apply to you, or you might not even encounter them.
Liv: However, the key thing is that, regardless of your experience, you deserve to enjoy your time at Manchester as much as possible, the same way that we have, once we realised how to make the most of it.
Aram: We hope you’re excited to start in Manchester, and good luck with starting in September!